“A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colours.”
— Karla Grimes
This Spell Works Exclusively with Male Narcissists
Reclaim control. Break the hold. Shift the balance.
If you’re dealing with a man who pulls you in, pushes you away, and leaves you feeling like you’ve lost control of yourself… you’re not imagining it.
Narcissistic men don’t just affect your emotions. They create a cycle — one that keeps you hooked, even when you know better. One moment you feel close to them, the next you’re shut out, and somehow you’re the one left thinking about them constantly.
This ritual is designed to break that pattern.
Not by chasing him.
Not by trying to fix him.
But by shifting the dynamic so the control comes back to you.
What This Ritual Is For
This work is suited to situations where:
- You feel emotionally tied to him in a way you can’t seem to break
- He withdraws and returns on his own terms
- You find yourself thinking about him far more than you should
- He keeps you in a cycle of attention, distance, and confusion
- You know the situation isn’t healthy, but you still feel pulled back
If that sounds familiar, this is exactly the kind of dynamic this ritual is built to address.
The Role of Lilith
Lilith is not passive energy.
She does not chase, submit, or wait to be chosen.
She represents self-possession, dominance, and emotional independence — the exact qualities that are often stripped away in narcissistic dynamics.
This working calls on Lilith to:
- Disrupt his emotional hold over you
- Restore your sense of control and stability
- Shift the energetic balance of the connection
- Break the cycle that keeps you tied to him
This is not about softening him or making him behave differently.
This is about changing the position you stand in.
What You Can Expect
After the ritual, the shift is usually experienced as:
- A gradual loosening of emotional attachment
- Clearer thinking and reduced mental pull toward him
- A stronger sense of self and personal control
- Less impact from his behaviour or absence
- A change in how the connection feels and functions
This is a grounding, stabilising shift — not something chaotic or overwhelming.
How the Ritual Is Carried Out
The ritual is performed over a set period of focused working, using:
- Petition work directed specifically at your situation
- Candle work aligned to control and reversal of influence
- Invocation of Lilith through her enn and offerings
- Personalised focus using the details you provide
Everything is carried out privately and deliberately, with the intention of shifting the dynamic at its root rather than just the surface behaviour.
What I Will Need From You
Once your order is placed, please send:
- Your full name and date of birth
- His full name and date of birth (if known)
- A recent photo of each of you if possible
Send details to: kate@solitarymorrigan.co.uk
These details allow the work to be focused properly, ensuring the energy is directed exactly where it needs to go rather than dispersed.
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Priority slots are available — add it at checkout to move your work forward. Limited availability.
Important
This ritual is not about love, reconciliation, or bringing someone closer.
It is about control, detachment, and balance.
It is best suited for situations where you feel emotionally bound, influenced, or unable to move on despite knowing you should.
If you’re ready to take your power back from a situation that’s been controlling you, this is where that shift begins.
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Disclaimer:
Unfortunately, like medicine, magic cannot offer guaranteed results. Even when given the best medicine, and the most up to date treatment, some diseases cannot be cured, and similarly, despite the most through and well crafted magical interventions, some situations resist change. This is an unfortunate fact of life. However, I can guarantee that all my workings are undertaken following traditional methods, according to traditional recipes, using traditional ingredients. Your faith is an essential ingredient in the work, along with reasonable efforts to allow the magic to take effect in your life through efforts to improve your situation in the worldly sphere.
